If a player's name was changed by us, that player could appeal to have the name changed to something less ridiculing. If the player has been banned, there is no appeal. It is permanent for that account name. Players need not worry about other players complaining that their name is in violation of the policy. If we permit it, then it's acceptable.

The app will mention the name policy during the account creation process. Failing to heed what it says is not a defence in the case of a violation.

It is draconian, no question about it. This is to ensure clarity of thought. Just because you are a guest (paying or not) in my house doesn't mean you can piss on the floor. If you are doubtful, then don't do it.

There is no problem with fieryspoon. Nothing untoward about encountering flaming cutlery in space. Crackpipes and bongs will vanish into the depths of hiperspace, never to be seen again.